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Happy Holidays

December 29, 2011

Things are great this holiday season. Last Christmas I was ill, in bed, and missed the festivities at my sister-in-laws. This year I was up, able and in attendance. My son is now almost two and it was a joy to see him enjoying Christmas day. Don’t think he know what was going on, in [...]

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Ok is Great

October 28, 2010

It has been a good last week or so. Last Friday I met with my boss and learned that my position will be extended for another year. This is not a big surprise but it is a relief. Just that fact that I had to find out if all was well for keeping my term [...]

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Rigorous Action

April 28, 2010

I am meeting with a sponsee tomorrow that I have not seen in months. He does some things real well, like going to meetings and calling me most days. Yet he is really balking at working the steps. He has had a lot of challenges. Things like operations are in fact fairly big deals for [...]

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A Babe in the Woods

April 1, 2010

My son is a little over five weeks old today. He is sleeping in a bassinet basket by my side. This experience of having a son, a child, is so very interesting. I could not imagine for a moment what it would be like to be drunk and oblivious to him and to myself. There [...]

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Getting the Answer

October 17, 2009

Today I was told I would be offered an exciting new job I had been hoping I would get. It is a few years of work, with some of the top people in my field. One of them is a world class scientist, with lots of awards and even a Pulitizer for a book he [...]

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Sponsee Sponsor

July 8, 2009

I make the conscious choice to be free, and to hold my freedom as a priority, not to be compromised. Passing it on. Three related bits of my sober life. 1. I asked someone to sponsor me last night. Thank goodness. I woke up today feeling much freer than I have in a long time. [...]

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And for that: I am NOT responsible

June 13, 2009

photo by redjar Anyone who is involved in getting sober in AA, and by getting sober I mean is working the steps with a sponsor and is involved in service, is familiar with our Responsibility Declaration. “I am responsible. When anyone, anywhere, reaches out for help, I want the hand of A.A. always to be [...]

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Getting out, physically and figuratively

March 22, 2009

I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear. Nelson Mandela Last Sunday I got away from myself. Finally. I have been living in fear and letting it run my life. I’m [...]

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